shoren18:

torikaze:

babyanimalgifs:

In case you weren’t aware, sting rays are basically puppies.

oh hey I know these guys! they’re in a little tide pool at the Monterrey Bay Aquarium and they’re super sweet. If they see you standing next to the pool they’ll jump up out of the water and splash you until you pet them

fifiandbogart:

bernardbernieburns:

What was it he did? I cant miss an opportunity to drag Ross

So! First! He made out with Rachel while he was still dating Julie

THEN, he couldn’t decide which one he wanted to date more, so he kept dating Julie and didn’t tell Rachel anything about his decision after they had kissed

THEN he made a pros and cons list to decide whether or not to dump Julie so he could date Rachel and he wrote shit like: Too ditzy, too spoiled, too into her looks, not much in common since she’s just a waitress, and she has fat ankles

THEN, after he finally decided to dump Julie and be with Rachel, he tried to hide the list from her but she found it anyway and got rightfully pissed off

THEN he tried to make all sorts of excuses for the list without actually apologizing

THEN he ignored Rachel’s choice to be alone by CLIMBING UP THE SIDE OF THEIR BUILDING INTO THEIR FUCKING BALCONY to try and force her to listen to him read her “Pro-list”

THEN he gets his other friends to let him into the house after Rachel makes it clear that she doesn’t want to see him by going into her room

THEN Rachel tries to explain to him why she’s so hurt by the list by telling him that all the things he wrote on the list were things she actually hates about herself and it sucks he not only agrees with her but actually uses those things as reasons not to be with her

THEN he CONTINUES to try and make excuses for himself and even try to make her feel bad about being mad at him by turning the situation around by saying “If things were the other way around, there’s nothing you could write about me that would make me not want to be with you”

THEN, after Rachel makes it clear that she’s not interested in talking to him, he calls Monica and asks her to turn on the radio since he made a song request for her so he’s basically forcing Rachel to listen to him

SO IN CONCLUSION: He didn’t apologize ONE TIME for the list, he tried to manipulate Rachel into forgiving him by saying she’s overreacting, AND proceeded to ignore Rachel’s wishes for a little bit of space continuously

This has been an anti-Ross psa

ruinedchildhood:

Avengers: Endgame (2019) dir. The Russo Brothers

cwote:

Do the things that make you feel like YOU.

Inspired by @transboysunited xoxo

furiousgoldfish:

things abuse survivors think/say

• maybe my trauma wasn’t bad enough
  
• maybe what happened was just my fault??
  
• but what if I can’t hold that person accountable? what if they meant well
  
• what if I don’t have the right to be angry?
• but what if they didn’t know they were hurting me? maybe its my fault for not saying it
  
• it’s my fault, i’ve always been hiding how badly things hurt me
  
• i’m just weak and pathetic and everything hurts me it’s not their fault i’m like this
  
• hey this this thing actually happen or did i make that up
  
• if i ask abuser they’ll tell me i made it up that must be true they do say i’m delusional
  
• maybe if I’ve done something differently this wouldn’t have happened
  
• guilt guilt guilt guilt
  
• what if abuser is right tho? what if they’re telling the truth and it’s okay to tell it in insults then?
  
• i’m garbage, i knew it
  
• yeah everyone deserves compassion and comfort but me? no.
  
• I am the sole person who is just bad enough to deserve everything that has happened to me
  
• no this person didn’t mean to hurt my feelings i’m just too sensitive!!!
  
• maybe someone else wouldn’t be hurt by this, this means its my fault
  
• i hate myself
  
• how long until everyone realizes i’m just a fake and there’s nothing valuable inside of me
  
• yeah they like me now but i’m going to fuck it up and they’ll hate me like everyone else
  
• was that abuse? no it can’t be. its my fault. if I wasn’t the way I am it wouldn’t have happened
  
• everything people do to me is just what I deserved
  
• what this person is doing bothers me so I have to try harder not to be bothered by it
  
• this person is wrong but everyone believes them so it must be okay
  
• yeah they hate me but i don’t want them to leave me maybe i can get them to hate me less
  
• yeah this person is hurting me but i still need them in my life maybe if i change myself
  
• it doesn’t matter if they hurt me, i’m used to it
  
• what if everyone abandons me and I die alone
  
• this person scares me but I can’t let that affect me
  
• I shouldn’t be feeling this way, I need to get over my feelings
  
• I can’t let anyone notice how I feel or they will hate me
  
• how does everyone just stay calm? why can’t I do that
  
• I’m a burden on everyone, I bet they’d all be happier if I wasn’t there
  
• if I disappeared right now wouldn’t everything be better?

*these are not truths, this is after-effect of long term abuse

Look at my shitty back

adinaascending:

Well this is awkward